Hello Darling, Woah LOOK-AT-THAT, who’s looking beautiful and shining like Starrr, *winky face* I am whistling right now.
Welcome cupcakes, well you are here which means, you are in urgent need of self-love medicine right? Don’t worry I got you, Today I will spill all about self-love tailored only for you because you are awesome and it’s high time you realize it, babe.
PHASE 1 CHOOSE TO SLAY– First thing first sister, You are fabulous and you know it, so don’t be on your bed all day eating yesterday’s leftovers kay? you need a reminder right now to know how enchanting you are so stand up wear your most fabulous dress go march to that mirror like a queen you are, and give yourself a twirl gurrl, and voila LOOK AT THAT SMILE. ooff the beauty, and you are insecure? PFFTTT beautiful girls are actually kind of dumb, like c’mon how can someone be insecure with that face?
PHASE 2 MIRROR– Mirror mirror on the wall, who’s the most beautiful of them all? You hunny! Stand in front of that mirror and say, ‘I am the most beautiful girl in the world’ And puhhleaasee do NOT poison the apple if the mirror says otherwise. Who cares? In my opinion, the mother was stupid to poison snow white. why listen to others when you can compliment yourself right? and that’s what you gonna do say 10 affirmations to yourself and give yourself a wink baby gurl.
PHASE 3 GIVE YOURSELF A TREAT– WITHOUT BEING GUILTYYYY. Yes you heard me right, treat yourself buttercup, go eat that slice of cake or order your favorite pasta. get that super jhatak(sparkly) earrings, YOU DESERVE IT. We live only once baby, In that life, you gonna starve yourself? huh? nope, I don’t think so. you are working hard and I think you deserve every great thing in the world, So buy that thing you wanted for weeks or eat that thing you have been craving for days, give yourself a treat. Give yourself a royal treatment because your Highness you absolutely deserve it.
PASE 4 POSITIVE PEOPLE IN, NEGATIVE PEOPLE OUT– We all have that one bestie who supports us no matter what right? AND we also have that one person who finds the smallest mistakes of ours in everything. with that being said kick them in the butt and show them the door. You need positive people who support you, honor you, and treat you with respect. Because our surroundings matter the most. The type of people we surround ourselves with, the type of mood we get in for a day. So bad people mean bad mood. Like c’monnn just because you are insecure that doesn’t mean you will jeopardize my mood for that, don’t get me wrong I am all forgiving and forget typa girl but when people disturb your peace too much, give them up. Now don’t actually kick them you dummy, just distance yourself bit by bit. We are better than that right, we don’t hurt other people okay?
PHASE 5 BEING WEIRD IS ABSOLUTELY OKAY- Embrace your inner weirdo gal, weird is wonderful get that in mind. It’s your quirks and weirdness that makes you different. And different is special who wants to be a basic babe when you can be special? Let your freak flag high my love. Also, that doesn’t mean you become the main character of those cringy fanfictions and start wearing Converse with your night pajamas. Honestly, I always find that super cringy when authors claim the main character is super different just cuz she wears glasses and doesn’t wear makeup. Also why are they always super thin? with brown orbs and bla bla bla.
PHASE 6 KINDNESS GIVES A KICK– Yepp, personally kindness is something that can make you feel instantly better. Kindness gives a kick sweetheart, A random act of kindness here and there can make you feel great about yourself, I am not saying to go and donate your entire 100$ bank account, what? why are you looking at me like that? you have 100$ right? Oh well, neither do I as if right now, but no worries one day you and I will wipe tears with 100$ bills In Sha Allah. So what was I saying? Yeah, random act of kindness. You know in Islam there’s a thing called kifara. Which basically means, You do well you gain well, you do bad you gain bad. We don’t believe in karma but we do believe in kifara so if you are having a bad day do good for someone else and I a 100% sure it will return to you. Cuz earth is round baby gurl. And it will also make you feel better about yourself.
PHASE 7 PRAY- Nothing makes you feel better more than prayer. This advice is based on my belief, as I am Muslim I always find salvation in prayers. Knowing Allah is listening to my every gossip and ranting gives me peace. Cuz it makes me realize who cares if humans don’t give you attention as long as God gives it. I meaaaannn, see Human are very complex creatures, we NEED someone in our lives no matter what. This whole independent thing is good but when it comes to love we all need someone, and who’s better if not God right? Knowing that the creator himself is here with me seeing and hearing makes us realize we don’t need creation. Unless it’s your husband. Gurll he kind of the support system you can get after Allah. Don’t be so harsh on that poor guy.
Well, that was all for now i kind of need to go and workout also I think that’s enough for your brain. Comprehend it first darling then we’ll talk about more. Till then toodles…
Fi’Aman’Allah girlieessssss.
M.ALI
